Do not concern yourself with tentative doubts, distractions, or quick fixes. Do not doubt yourself. This was all taken care of in the backward planning stage. Confidence will come with practice. Keep moving daily toward the goal. When a man is on task, knows what he wants, and is moving toward his goal, even the seas will part to allow him his desire. You must not doubt. It is impossible to believe in yourself and then fall into idle worry and wasted effort. Do not doubt that a valid plan is in motion for you to reach your goal. The universe will work with you, synchronicity and serendipity come to be partners in your quest. You will see, hear and feel things differently. This is Key # 5-Expect Miracles.

High expectations can really only come from clear thinking, goal planning, practice and learned confidence. It is impossible to fail when you have high expectations for yourself based on what you know now and keys leading up to this. This is Key # 6- Appreciate everything in your life; even major disappointments carry information for you.

Your life has intrinsic value. Show appreciation for your life by surrounding yourself with others who are living by the values that you have created for yourself. Do not allow others to bring you down to their level. You will grow to learn more about what you want for your life the more time that you spend in the company of persons you admire. Before you can do this you must totally honor your own value system and be living by those values you hold in high regard. Become the person you would want to spend time with. This is Key # 7 -To Have A Friend you Must Be a Friend.

Remember the successes and only notice the failures. When a negative thought or remembered disappointment slips in to your memory do not try to change it or remove this memory but do not react to it. Only notice that it is showing up again and say to yourself, “There is that thought again.” In order to learn from disappointment, mistake, loss, and be able to move forward you must notice these thoughts when they appear. Do not make excuses for your failures, shortcomings, and bad decisions because this will lesson your power to make changes in your life. No excuses, and no reaction, just notice the thoughts for the mistakes they are and do not add emotion or put any significance with these thoughts. This is Key # 8- Give Yourself A Break.

If you have shared your desire for change with someone there-by enlisting them to help you with your quest, they may make it personal. Perhaps this person will take on responsibility for change by thinking of themselves as your personal life coach. They may even become a bit more eager to see results than you are and will try to induce action sooner than you are ready to move. Just remember that you asked them for help and do not fight them. You brought them into your life so you must now trust that they have your best interest in mind. You made the decision to ask them to support you so now is not the time to argue about the methods or timing of their help. This is Key # 9-Accept solicited critique.

The power is with you. It dose not matter what your situation, you were a necessary part of creating the situation so it follows that your active participation is needed to make reconciliation or improvements. Even the impossible goal may be evoked by you to get to where you want to be. Just remember when you get to where you are going, there you are.

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